I wish I could sing! :( Since I can’t, I’ll settle for letting her do it for me. <3
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She Was So Happy Until She Fell In Love..
Maybe I watch too much Sex And The City, but maybe not. I just truly feel that love has no age, no aim, no condom, no care. Meaning, I believe you can’t help who you love. You can choose who you like, but love? That’s no game. Listening to your friends try to convince you who not to love is annoying. (If you’re the friend, especially if you’re single, just shut the f*ck up!) Especially since saying and doing are two totally different things and are easier said than done. I’ll listen to a friend, give my opinion, but not advice. At the end of the day, that’s your friend’s decision and you shouldn’t do anything to try to alter it. Love your friend no matter what, because in the end if he does break her heart, you’ll be there to pick up the pieces since friendship is supposed to be unbreakable. Love is blind. That’s why going a few days without seeing the person you love helps your relationship. I always say “I’m here when you need me, away for you to miss me.” If I’m with you all day every day, how do I know what missing you is? Once you love someone enough, you’ll do anything stupid or smart since you’re acting off your heart and not your brain. Love is a gift and a curse. Love hurts, but what doesn’t? In my opinion (that we are all entitled to), love yourself before you try to love the opposite sex, and make sure you love yourself more. From experience, it takes some of the pain away!
XOXO
So It Begins..
I had mixed emotions about my first entry. A combination of nervous and excited. This isn’t my first blog. I’ve actually had quite a few in my time. Back then, it was filled with a bunch of nothing I’m sure, but you live and you learn and you grow. I actually want people to benefit from this blog. Not just for entertainment purposes of “LOL” or gossip.
Don’t be fooled, I’m no Dr. Phil or relationship expert. But, apparently my friends think I’m great with words and ideas. I’m the “go-to Girl” when they have a problem and need a quick solution. Which I don’t mind; It’s a compliment. But to understand where I come from, you have to know what I’ve achieved. I’ve been in love, engaged twice, birthed once, and I’m still single. Now, I’m not exactly sure what that says about me or my relationship advice besides that I’m experienced and 9 out of 10 times know what the hell I’m talking about!
I personally would never ask advice from a single friend who got played in her last relationship. They always seem bitter to me. Always tell you the opposite of what you want to hear. “Oh ‘F’ him girl” “He aint sh*t” “You should’ve cheated” “I told you to leave him alone”. What some women don’t understand is, when another woman confides in you about her relationship, she doesn’t want to hear you bashing who she decided to love. Ultimately, you can’t help who you love. Who said love would be easy? I don’t know of anything to be easy anymore. — But back to the issue at hand. You should always have an openminded friend. That friend who won’t judge you no matter what. A friend who is a true friend. Who supports you even when you’re wrong but won’t hesitate to tell you “B*tch, if you don’t go change that outfit, I’m not going anywhere with you!” Now if you’re reading this right now, and you don’t have that type of friend.. I’m here for you. I can’t promise you I’ll always be right, but I can promise you that I’ll try.
